Success (a win) doesn't make you, and failure (a loss) doesn't break you.
Zig Ziglar claims that failure is an event, not a person. The same is true with success. Success doesn't define you, and neither does failure. Zig Ziglar states that we should find our identity in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ: https://www.ziglar.com/product/one-year-daily-insights/