March 30, 2010 Edition #13
Zig On…Raising Positive Kids
By Zig Ziglar
Today I’d like to talk about a remarkable family from inner-city New Orleans, the Lundy-Smiths. Susie Mae Lundy and husband, Willie J. Smith, a Baptist pastor, raised nine successful children. According to Fortune magazine, the parents set an entrepreneurial example built around commitment, faith and hard work. Each child grew up with assigned responsibilities. By age five the six boys were expected to hose down and sweep the driveway of the family’s Exxon gas station and auto repair shop. Larry Lundy, owner of 31 Pizza Hut outlets, says they knew that what the family ate at the end of the day was contingent upon what they did during the day. That kind of motivation is pretty easy to understand – and can be very effective.
Today, Michael is a Mobil Oil executive in Houston; Harold is president of Louisiana’s Grambling State University; Mark and Wilton are psychiatric counselors in Houston; Nell is an elementary school teacher in Houston; Lloyd is a Vice President at Goodwill Industries in Beaumont, Texas; Jackie is an emergency room nurse and Yolanda is an accountant, both in New Orleans. All of them are hard-working, productive citizens and they started early. Back in 1978 all the kids led a fund-raising drive that raised about $65,000 to build the church their father now leads. These “kids” have also presented their parents with fourteen grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.
Yes, it looks like the American Dream is still alive for those who are willing to work hard and dream that American Dream, particularly if they have parents who guide and direct them early on. Think about it and I’ll SEE YOU AT THE TOP!
Zig Ziglar is known as America’s motivator. He is the author of 29 books and numerous audio and video recordings. He brings his message of hope to thousands on the stages at the Get Motivated Seminars. See him in action!
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Ambition, fueled by compassion, wisdom and integrity, is a powerful force for good that will turn the wheels of industry and open the doors of opportunity for you and countless others. ~ Zig Ziglar
No Complaint Policy
By Dr. Lee Colan
To be clear up front, the title of this article is not referring to a customer service policy. It is, however, referring to a human service policy. Although complaining can feel cathartic in the short term, consider how it can shift our focus in the wrong direction:
• Complaining focuses on the past vs. the future. Remember, a car’s windshield is much bigger than the rear view mirror for a reason – we are supposed to look forward more than we look back.
• Complaining focuses on us vs. others. It plants seeds of negativity on the walls of our minds that reinforce our situation. Our complaining words describe our situation instead of changing it. If you complain, you will remain.
Okay, virtual classroom here. Please raise your hand if you thoroughly enjoy listening to someone complain. Just guessing, but I am not seeing a lot of hands going up.
Consider boldly adopting a “No Complaint” policy. If you have kids, you won’t have to worry about breaking the policy because they will tell you as soon as you do!
Even in the worst of circumstances, we can always find more to be thankful for than to complain about. We witness this every day when we see victims of natural disaster who focus on the truly important things they still have and can never really be taken away. Or the friend who is fighting cancer and manages to always see the bright side and inspires others when it would be so easy and understandable to complain.
In the words of John Wooden, basketball coaching legend at UCLA, and a man who turned good players into great people, “Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.”
If you need a boost with your No Complaint Policy, check out the rapid-read book (just 64 pgs.) titled Orchestrating Attitude. You can also take the FREE Attitude Tune-up and get a real-time feedback report. As Zig Ziglar would say, “It’s a check up from the neck up to get rid of that stinkin’ thinkin’.”
Lee Colan is President of The L Group, a Texas-based consulting firm. He is a high-energy leadership advisor, author and leadership expert. He has built a track record of successfully managing the challenges of rapid organizational change. Lee possesses an in-depth understanding of business, people, and organizations. For more about Lee visit his website.
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Word of the Week
Effulgence
“i fooljənss”
noun
1. The state of being bright and radiant; splendor; brilliance
Zig’s integrity in his private life gives effulgence to his public actions.
Zingers
You can tell Americans trust in God by the way they drive.
Law gives the pedestrian the right of way but makes no provision for flowers.
A motorist is a man who after seeing an accident drives carefully for several blocks.
One of the best automobile insurance policies is a Sunday afternoon nap.
For that tired, run-down feeling, try jaywalking.
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