March 16, 2010 Edition #11
Zig On…Hugging is the Answer
By Zig Ziglar
Perhaps I feel this way because my wife is affectionately known as “The Happy Hugger.” If it’s moving she’ll stop it and hug it, and if it’s not moving she’ll dust it off and sell it! However, there’s another reason I believe hugging is the answer. According to Greg Risberg of the Northwestern University Medical School in Chicago, the physiological benefit of hugging includes a reduction of blood pressure and increased oxygen in the blood. He says that we all have a “skin hunger,” and we are missing out on a vital part of our health if we’re not getting in on some serious hugging. He maintains that four hugs a day are the minimum required to meet that skin hunger. From my perspective, I need lots more than four. Stanley Simon of the University of Massachusetts says that “hugging does more than demonstrate affection. It actually seems to keep people healthy. The skin is the body’s largest sensory organ. If it’s under-stimulated, many people actually develop an aching sensation. These are the people who will find it harder to get well and to stay well.”
For the benefit of you husbands, let me tell you something about your wives. They love hugs but resent it when you ignore them all day and then give them your undivided attention when the lights go out at night. They want a hug when a hug is all you have on your mind. They don’t necessarily want them to be long, and in most cases, they do not want them to be suggestive or sensual. The hug really says, “I love you, I enjoy being around you, you’re important to me, I look forward to spending more time with you.” There’s an old saying that actions speak louder than words, and to take a few seconds a number of times during the day to get and give those non-suggestive hugs really speaks volumes. Give it a try and I’ll SEE YOU - and your marriage -AT THE TOP!
Zig Ziglar is known as America’s motivator. He is the author of 29 books and numerous audio and video recordings. He brings his message of hope to thousands on the stages at the Get Motivated Seminars.
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Many marriages would be better if the husband and wife clearly understood that they’re on the same side. ~Zig Ziglar
Proceed and Succeed
By Billy Cox
We all face disappointments and setbacks. Everyone has times in their life where they ask themselves such questions as “is it all worthwhile,” “am I really on the right path” and “if so, why is it so hard?”
These are not ordinary moments … these are your destiny-defining moments. These are moments where the decisions you make determine the path you take which will lead you to your ultimate destination. So when you find yourself at one of life’s crossroads, ask yourself these three questions:
1. Do I love what I do? An old cliché goes, “If you love what you do you’ll never work a day in your life.” No one loves everything about what they do. However, you must love the core cause, the mission behind what you do, if you expect any lasting success.
2. Do I have the talents to succeed at it? This is a good question because you may love what you’re doing but have no chance at ever being successful at it. If you don’t believe me, just watch American Idol. You must be brutally honest with yourself when you ask this question. You must also solicit the opinions of people you trust who will be brutally honest with you.
3. Does what I’m doing offer me the potential to achieve my social and economic goals? You may love what you do and have the talent to do it, but there’s no potential in it. An example is Will Smith trying to sell high-powered X-ray machines in The Pursuit of Happyness. That would almost be like trying to sell high-powered fax machines or starting a new automobile company today. What you’re doing must have opportunity and potential.
If you answered “NO” to any of these questions you need to do as we say in Texas: “Dismount a Dead Horse.” Change directions as quickly as possible. Find something you love to do that has potential and that brings your talents to light.
If you answered “YES” to all three questions, chances are you’re just in a lull. Or, as Seth Godin says, you’re in “The Dip.” These life-altering moments are when you must proceed and succeed. Remember that most of life’s greatest victories are just inches away from life’s biggest setbacks, and there’s always a way if you’re committed.
This is the time to keep your eye on the target, turn up the heat and keep pressing onward toward the prize.
If you’ve experienced setbacks, you may have to analyze the situation and try a different strategy. You may have to get creative and think out of the box. Where there’s talent, passion and potential, you can proceed confidently, knowing that you will succeed because you are on the right path and victory is near.
Billy Cox is a straightforward communicator, a compelling motivator and energetic leader who uniquely connects with today’s achievers through compelling and creative teaching methods. Come hear Billy live on March 23rd – it’s FREE. Register here.
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What’s New at Ziglar
Technology can be overwhelming, but it can also be extremely beneficial to your professional life. So how do you avoid spending meaningless hours Twittering? What’s the best way to organize your Outlook files? How do you make the most out of the time you devote to your career? With hundreds of opinions, thoughts, and ideas toward the subject it’s hard to know who to trust. That’s why Ziglar wants you to go with the name you trust. For over 30 years Ziglar has been educating the business world on how to be better in all areas. Learning to manage technology is no different.
Come to the May 12, 2010, Tactical Tips for Managing Technology and Time class. Learn how to not only manage your time but to manage your technology.
Call 1-800-527-0306 and ask for Margaret Garrett or Michael McGowan or leave your contact information at info@ziglar.com and someone will contact you with more information.
Word of the Week
Philomath
Noun
“Fil uh math”
1. A lover of learning, a scholar
He is a Philomath, devouring any book he can get his hands on.
Zingers
One way to make people slow down in their driving is to call it work.
It is safer to limit your speed than to speed your limit.
Drive carefully around the children—we value our tax deduction.
Whether it’s on the road or in an argument, when you see red, stop.
Drive so that your driver’s license will expire before you do.
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